i wish i could remember it exactly. i saw it on the wall in the counselor's office this morning when we were discussing a kid's schedule change. it said something like you shouldn't measure your life by your acccomplishments but instead by the challenges you've overcome to achieve those accomplishments. after another moment of feeling like a failure it was good to read and know that this was just one more of life's challenges. made me feel a bit victorious, truthfully.